There are many things that last over a decade... well built furniture, well established companies, trees with strong roots, well cared for china. They last because they are special, and as such they are cared for.
My sweet husband and I celebrated our 10 year anniversary this past weekend. Apparently, we have made it over the decade mark. It has not always been easy sailing, but we have cared for each other and the sanctity of marriage.
It is hard to remember what life was like without him. Just like it is hard to remember what life was like with out the internet, cell phones, or a dishwasher. Yet those "necessities" came into our life after we were married. It just seems like we have always been together.
It may be because we have known each other for 15 years. We were good friends in high school and did so much together. I guess that is why it seems we have been together for as long as I can remember. I sometimes think about how much fun we had cheering at all the games, or singing at our Barbershop and Ensemble performances, or running in to each other at Kinko's at midnight working on our sterling scholar books. We were quite busy during high school. Yet we were also care free. No bills, no house to clean, no teething children, no busy work schedule. Some times I wish I could go back to those days.... and yet, not.
I have had dreams that I am back in high school and trying to figure out who to ask to the dance. And then I start to think, in my dream, who will watch the kids and will my husband be okay if I take another guy to the dance and him... weird! Again, he is such a part of my life, I can't even go back in time with out having him there. Well, he was there anyway, but not as my husband.
All in all, it has been a wonderful 10 years. We have been blessed! We love each other dearly! We have 3 wonderful children! We have moved 9 times. We are now in a beautiful home (with a 2 car garage!!)! We have been in primary presidencies, elder's quorum presidencies, bishoprics, cub scouting, teachers and nursery. We have a good job, thanks to the dedication and persistence of my husband to get his B.S., M.S., and M.B.A.! What a busy 10 years we have had!
I sometimes wonder what lies in store for the next 10? I have no idea, but I can only guess, it will be crazy busy! I can't wait!
3 comments:
Congratulations!!!! 10 fabulous years together I am sure. WOW! You are such an example to me and I love reading your blog you make me laugh, cry, and laugh again. I will never forget my little ookie from camp. You are and were such a charachter. Keep up the memories and wonderful blogs.
ditto
Congratulations!
Congratulations! Wow, I can't believe it has been 10 years. You are such a wonderful couple and I look up to both of you so much for the way you support each other and are raising such a lovely family. Thank you for your examples and for who you are to me, Brandon, and Brenna. We love you all so much and feel so lucky to have family like you! Hope to see you soon!
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